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  Robert Todd Lincoln spent much of his adult life standing at the edges of American tragedy, close enough each time to wonder what it meant that he kept being there. He was Abraham Lincoln's eldest son, born in 1843, one of only four Lincoln children and the only one to survive to old age. On the night of April 14, 1865, his parents invited him to join them at Ford's Theatre for a performance of Our American Cousin . Robert, exhausted from his recent service on General Grant's staff, declined and went to bed early at the White House instead. When word came that his father had been shot, he rushed to the Petersen House across the street from the theater and was at his father's bedside when Abraham Lincoln died the next morning — present for the ending, though not the shooting itself, a distinction that later popular retellings often blurred. The ordinary situation, for the next sixteen years, was simply a successful public career — Robert became a lawyer, then Secreta...

  My name is Marcus, and for over twenty years I believed my uncle simply didn't think enough of me to acknowledge the biggest day of my life. My Uncle Ray was my father's older brother, a quiet, complicated man who'd drifted to the edges of our family long before I was born. There had been some falling-out between him and my father in their twenties — something about money, or a business deal gone wrong, the details always vague and clearly still tender whenever it came up at holidays. Ray lived two states away, alone, and showed up at family gatherings only rarely, always leaving early, always polite but distant, like a man visiting a life that used to be his. When I got married at twenty-eight, I sent him an invitation anyway, mostly at my father's suggestion, a small gesture toward whatever bridge still existed between the brothers. Ray didn't come. He didn't send a gift. He didn't send a card, or a call, or even a brief acknowledgment after the fact...

  In 1848, two sisters in a small New York farmhouse convinced their family that a spirit was speaking to them — and set off a movement that would eventually claim millions of followers on two continents. Kate Fox was eleven, her sister Maggie fourteen, when strange rapping sounds began in the bedroom of their home in Hydesville, New York. Their parents, Methodist farmers, grew alarmed enough to involve neighbors, who came to witness the sounds themselves. The ordinary situation — a family disturbed by unexplained noises in their house — quickly turned into something else entirely when Kate reportedly began communicating with the source, asking it to rap out answers to yes-or-no questions. The girls claimed the rapping came from the spirit of a peddler allegedly murdered in the house years earlier. Word spread fast through the small community, and within months, the sisters were demonstrating their communications publicly, with their older sister Leah, already an adult, taking on...

  My name is Nora, and for nearly a decade I resented a man who was quietly taking care of me the entire time. My husband, Frank, died of a sudden aneurysm when I was fifty-nine, leaving me alone in the house we'd shared for thirty years. In the first months of widowhood, I remember noticing, with a specific kind of bitterness, how little the neighborhood seemed to register my loss. People brought casseroles for a week or two, then life resumed around me as though nothing had happened. My neighbor, Harold, an older widower himself who lived alone two doors down, never once came by. Never brought a meal. Never asked how I was managing the house, the yard, any of it. I remember thinking, more than once, that a man who understood grief firsthand should have known better than to leave me so entirely alone in mine. I carried that resentment for years, quietly. I'd wave to Harold across our yards, exchange the bare minimum of pleasantries when we crossed paths at the mailbox, and pri...

  My name is Jennifer, and for six years I resented my sister for something she never actually did. Our mother was diagnosed with early-onset Parkinson's when I was twenty-eight and my sister, Kayla, was thirty-one. I moved back into our childhood home almost immediately to help manage her care, rearranging my entire life around doctors' appointments and medication schedules and the slow, aching decline that disease brings into a family. Kayla, meanwhile, announced within a few months that she was moving out of state for a new job. I remember the specific coldness I felt hearing that news, standing in our mother's kitchen, wondering how my own sister could choose a career move over showing up for the hardest chapter of our mother's life. For six years, I built an entire narrative around that decision. I told friends, told my husband, told myself late at night when the exhaustion of caregiving felt unbearable, that Kayla had simply run from the hard thing, leaving me to ...